“Masculinity is not “toxic”;
Masculinity is Medicine.”
This show is dedicated to the exploration, celebration, and pursuit of healthy masculinity in the modern world. Because honest conversation around the brilliance and the shadows of men empowers humans in both male and female bodies into a deeper understanding of men and the male experience.
I'm your host Mikaal Bates and my mission is the conscious evolution of men and masculinity across this planet in our lifetime, one man at a time. From emasculation to (Re)Masculation, this podcast stands in service to all of humanity by taking a stand for good men.
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#1 - Welcome to the ReMasculation Podcast
I believe we need more from men, not less; men who can rise above divisive ideologies and embody the best qualities from both sides of the aisle: strength and sensitivity, power and presence, humor and depth, kindness and killer instinct.
From emasculation to (Re)Masculation, this podcast stands in service to all of humanity by taking a stand for good men everywhere.
#2 - Conscious Coaching with Brendan Burns
In this deeply personal episode, Brendan and I explore challenging topics like overcoming emotional abuse, porn addiction, and navigating relationships. We discuss the importance of self-reflection and self-discovery in empowering men to create healthier relationships and lives. Our conversation delves into the balance between leadership, masculine energy, and personal development, touching on the importance of strong leadership and work-life balance.
#3 - One Golden Thread with Jeff Scult
Jeff Scult made a now legendary pivot at age of 51 to become a first-time clothing designer of what has become one of the top brands of “conscious clothing” available, One Golden Thread. Explore the sacred web he is weaving through self, business, and world, and how he has been able to merge art and purpose into lucrative service through authentic self-expression. Jeff believes that the gold inside us is the thread that unites us, a mantra that has guided his life and his brand. Living life golden, one day at a time.
#4 - Savage & Saint with Michael Holt
Michael Holt, founder of Savage and Saint Consultancy and close personal friend discusses the importance of not only discipline, but of surrender as the true two-fold path to authentic self-governance and vitality. “How can surrendering discipline lead to a powerful infusion of creative and productive energy in your life?” Discover how surrendering discipline can lead to the productive energy we seek, and the transformative effects of establishing a concentrated and healthy mind-body relationship.
#5 - Artist of Love with Madelyn Moon
Join me for a dynamic conversation with the inspiring Madelyn Moon, a creative, intimacy, and sacred union teacher who has become a leading voice in the world of feminine and masculine relationships. Madelyn shares her journey of finding her unique flavor of innovation and how it has brought her success and influence in her field. Listen in as we discuss the power of tapping into our inner creative compass and the importance of authenticity in our self-expression.
#6 - Men’s Work with Gethin Aldous
Gethin Aldous, film and video game maker, and co-founder of All Kings, an organization dedicated to building healthy communities for young men. Gethin has been involved in men's work for over a decade, known for his documentary “The Work” and has been honoured with a Ron Hering Award by the Mankind Project. Drawing from his own experience in men's work and his passion for storytelling, Gethin shares how archetypal energies and parts work can help heal deep emotional wounds.
#7 - Toxic Femininity with Joshua Hathaway
Joshua Hathaway unravels a tangled web of violence, diving into its physical and emotional aspects while questioning how it disrupts the balance of consent. Discover the unintended effects of feminism, toxic femininity, and the role gossip plays as a form of emotional violence. With Joshua's expertise in collective trauma healing, tantric reconciliation, and collaborative leadership, we embark on a journey to better understand the sources of violence and ways to prevent its replication.
#8 - Men + Psychedelics with James Eshelman
Welcome to Episode 8 of the ReMasculation Podcast. When my good friend and colleague James Eshelman first introduced me to the powerful combination of psychedelics and men's work, I was blown away by the profound healing potential of plant medicine. We recently sat down to discuss James's personal journey from a corporate drone to a passionate psychedelic guide and integration coach. Together, we examine the recent legalization of psychedelics in Colorado, the incredible potential for self-discovery and healing, and the importance of reconnecting with our bodies and emotions, particularly for men.
#9 - Decadence, Nihilism and Initiation in the West
When I first heard Mark Walsh's teachings on "decadence in the West", I instantly knew this was something special that men everywhere needed to hear. In this episode, Mark and I discuss the unmistakable qualities of a culture in decline and what virtues of western society are worth celebrating and preserving.
If you've been feeling like the world has gone crazy and things are only getting worse, you're not alone and you definitely do not want to miss this
#10 - Reclaiming The Masculine Essence
In this episode we have a discussion with Frank Mondeose. Frank, also known as "The Spiritual Playboy," is an expert in love, eros and relating, a teacher of Sexual Shamanism, a lead facilitator with ISTA (the International School of Temple Arts) co-founder of the ReMENber Brotherhood Journey and creator of the clothing brand Monde Osé.
Frank describes how he helps guide men in his containers to source their validation from their internal world instead of the external, recognize and heal patterns of generational trauma, healthily deal with feelings of disrespect, and cultivate a sense of empathy and compassion to meet others without losing their essence.
#11 - Presence, Polarity, and Living a Life of Purpose with Ryan Albury
On today's episode we have a discussion with Ryan Albury, a Men's Work facilitator of the highest caliber. During this conversation, Ryan and I discuss some of the shortcomings of modern Men's work. For the modern man, focusing on either the emotional wellbeing and inner peace or the performance driven discipline without incorporating the other creates an incomplete picture.
If you or someone you know feels stuck in their life and finds difficulty in remaining present and consistently paying attention to what matters most, listen to this episode today. (Especially the Chapters on the Levels of Presence and Training your Attention)
#12-Better Men Have Better Sex with Dan Hochman
In this episode we sit down with my friend Dan Hochman, a Men's Work facilitator and musical artist based out of Boulder, Colorado. Dan and I discuss the consequences of living a distracted life, keeping a man's true potential locked in a never ending sedation cycle of cheap dopamine spikes while delaying his development physically, mentally, sexually, and spiritually.
Fluent in the art of shadow work integration, Dan also discusses the major threats to the developing man in today's society. I know this one is going to hit home for a lot of men out there struggling with pornography and other addictions. Our intention is not to judge or shame the industry, but to call up our fellow brothers to a higher standard of excellence.
#13 - Waking up to the Work of Loving Men with Veronica Kaulinis
You do not want to skip over this one. In this episode we sit down with an amazing Coach, Founder, and Workshop Facilitator Veronica Kaulinis. In a very on-brand conversation, Veronica gets Vulnerable AF regarding her journey with waking up to the work of loving and receiving love from Men.
Along this journey we explore the importance of clarity, the art of softening to receive, taking radical responsibility, de-armoring with discernment, learning to say no with loving approval, breaking through resentment, and many more crucial frameworks to unlocking the King or Queen within.
#14 - Influence in Integrity with Zach Watson
In today's episode I sit down with Zach Watson, a self proclaimed recovering Manchild. We've talked before on this show about how the uninitiated man will unconsciously put their woman into the role of their mother or therapist. As we discuss in this episode, acknowledging how much we rely on invisible labor to maintain our lives and households, and making intentional shifts to stop outsourcing decision making to our partners is a crucial step in avoiding this intimacy-killer.
If, like a lot of men, you've struggled adapting to cohabitation during COVID quarantine or you find yourself getting into the same simple arguments on a regular basis, then this episode is for you.
#15-Initiation
In this episode I talk on the history and importance of initiation rituals and rites of passage. For thousands of years, the transition from boy to man has been accompanied by special rituals and ceremonies. In the modern world however these rites of passage have fallen out of mainstream culture, and yet we wonder why so many men are walking around today with "boy-psychology".
These ancient traditions were more than just spiritual practices and traditions, they marked important transition moments in life and prepared men to let the past, immature parts of themselves die and be reborn with a new level of understanding.
#16 - The Lost Technology of the Clan
In this episode I talk on the history and importance of initiation rituals and rites of passage. For thousands of years, the transition from boy to man has been accompanied by special rituals We have lost the ways of community and kinship.
In this episode I speak on the importance of finding and contributing to an aligned community. In a culture that romanticizes the Lone Wolf mentality, we are charged with the responsibility to wake up from the delusion that growth is a path walked in isolation and remember this most ancient technology.
#17 - 7 Day Fasting & Sacred Tree Diets with Jordan Mockingbird
In 2024 what does it mean to be in alignment with nature? In a culture that has become so accustomed to hustle, technology, and constant change at an ever-increasing pace, what role does the ancient, subtle wisdom of plants have left to play?As we discuss in this episode with Jordan Mockingbird, a practitioner of the sacred healing arts and steward of shamanic medicine, there are many journeys to connect with the deep wisdom of the universe without using psychedelics or other entheogens.
If you're searching to reconnect to the wisdom deep within your soul or you're struggling to adapt to a culture that has divorced itself from the subtlety of life, feelings, and spirituality, then you're definitely not going to want to miss this episode!
#18 - The Essence of Masculine Truth with Oak Mountain
This episode is a continuation of a conversation I had on The Smiling Human Podcast with the one and only, Oak Mountain. As one can expect, we spend a lot of time discussing the development of healthy Masculinity in this episode. Specifically, Oak brings awareness to how development and growth emerges not by looking into the past or future, but only by orientating one's awareness to the present moment with courage and willingness.
Along with the importance of present moment awareness, Oak and I speak to the power of telling the truth and the difference between objective truths, or facts, and individual truths, beliefs. This is a conversation you definitely do not want to miss. Oak Mountain is a master communicator and his words resonate with the wisdom of long studied and well earned ancient knowledge.
#19 - Porn, Cults, and Masculine Sexuality with Tyson Adams
Pornography is a multi-billion dollar industry that siphons off our life-force energy for commercial gain. Like almost every man in the modern era, I have had my own struggles with porn and masturbation so in today's episode we sit down with Tyson Adams to explore the full depth and sinister implications of pornography on masculinity and male development.
In the age of Virtual Reality and Artificial Intelligence, it is more important now than ever before to shine a light on these vices and adopt a responsible perspective on our sacred sexual essence. Trust me when I say, this episode has information that almost every man in your life will need at some point in his life.
#20 - Return of The King with Jordan Mockingbird
In this episode, Mikaal Bates and returning guest Jordan Mockingbird delve into the depths of men's work, weaving in the timeless wisdom of J.R.R. Tolkien's mythology. Together, they explore the archetype of the king, the balance of power, and the spiritual significance of Tolkien's Return of the King.
This conversation unfolds profound insights into how modern men can embody authenticity, leadership, and divine masculinity while honoring ancient traditions and sacred practices. Tune in to uncover the intersection of myth, masculine healing, and practical tools for personal growth.
#21 - Masculinity is not toxic. Masculinity is medicine
On today's episode, we dive deep into the essence of presence, authenticity, and trustable masculinity with Vance McMurry-a man who embodies both warrior strength and deep sensitivity. This conversation explores the core struggles men face today-trusting themselves, trusting other men, and being trusted by women.
We discuss how societal conditioning has impacted modern masculinity and offer a practical roadmap to becoming a deeply present, grounded, and authentic man. If you or someone you know is navigating the balance between strength and sensitivity, power and presence, or seeking deeper connection in brotherhood, leadership, and relationships, listen to this episode today.
#22 - The King's Code: The Masculine Rites of Passage with Sean Greenwalt & Isaiah Jacob
In this episode of The Remasculation Podcast, I sit down with Sean Greenwalt and Isaiah Jacob, two men who have walked through the crucible of The King's Code-a men's initiatory rite of passage designed to burn away the boy, forge the man, and call forth the king.
This isn't just a conversation-it's a transmission. A glimpse into what happens when a man truly commits to his own evolution.
#23 - Feminine Radiance, Masculine Leadership: How Men's Work impacts Women
In this episode of The Remasculation Podcast, I talk with Tanai Milgram and Quinn—two women who have walked the path of deep feminine reclamation, breaking free from societal conditioning and stepping into their true power.
This isn’t just a conversation—it’s a transmission. A glimpse into what happens when men and women step beyond societal conditioning and into conscious, empowered relationships.
This episode will shift your perspective.
#24 - Masculine Initiation: How to find your Purpose as a Man - With Daimon Sweeney and Luke Everidge
In today’s episode, I sit down with Luke Everidge & Damon Sweeney, two men at opposite ends of life’s spectrum…one the youngest and the other the eldest graduate of The King’s Code.
Together, we explore the necessity of purpose, the power of brotherhood, and the role of a higher calling in forging trustable, grounded, and powerful men.
Too many men today feel lost…disconnected from their mission, alone in their struggles, and drowning in distractions that rob them of presence and power. The modern world has stripped us of rites of passage, mentorship, and deep brotherhood—but that ends here.
#25 – Boss Babe Meets Tradwife: The New Feminine Awakening – with Aimee Batuski
In this episode, I sit down with my dear sister and co-conspirator, Aimee Batuski… co-founder of Desire on Fire and one of the fiercest feminine forces I know.
Aimee and I explore what it really takes for women to receive conscious masculine leadership and how cultural narratives have distorted our ability to connect in truth. We talk about boss babe burnout, feminine reclamation, and the radical act of learning to love and trust men in a culture that teaches the opposite.
Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in-between, this episode is your permission slip to drop the blame, do the work, and create the intimacy you long for...starting with yourself.